I started my chaplaincy when this hospital moved to Rolling Hills Drive as part of my theological study requirement. I found that even now, as I go in to visit with patients with some trepidation, I come out refreshed and enriched by my visit with them.
I am a retired teacher. I have a Master of Education and a Master of Theological Studies Degree. I serve on our Church Board and am the Church Treasurer. I also offer my service to our National Church Office and travel overseas to teach at some of our mission supported seminaries.
My favorite memory at Headwaters is when a long-term Dialysis patient I had been visiting over the years had passed away and he had asked his family to request that I officiate at his funeral. It was nice to have the opportunity to build up a relationship of trust and friendship with him and that he felt comfortable with me to have the honour of officiating at his funeral.
There have been many experiences that have impacted me. The most difficult one was when I was called in for an emergency. A week-old child had passed away and the family had requested a chaplain to comfort them. As a father and grandfather, it was very difficult to keep my composure and try to bring them comfort during their time great grief.
Others impactful moments have been when I come in to visit a patient and they tell me that they remember me from a few years ago when I had been in to visit them or a loved one. We never know what impact we have on people when we might visit them for only ten minutes and yet have the opportunity to bring some peace into their lives as they are going through a difficult time.
Being a chaplain is a calling and is not for everyone. However, if you feel that you have been called into this role, the hospital provides a well-developed programme that will provide you with the tools required for you to fulfil this role. They offer you the opportunity to be mentored and put into practice what you have learned and if after all this you still feel called to his role, you will continue to receive encouragement by the Spiritual Care Coordinator and the rest of the team.
The hospital staff always make me fell welcomed when I come onto the floor. It is a difficult but rewarding experience and one in which you feel richer for being used by God to bring comfort into the lives of the patients and their families.
Thank you, John, for your time and dedication to those we serve.